tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3893665144141962944.post2596790109282012601..comments2024-01-25T15:09:03.714-08:00Comments on Whiskey's Place: NBC’s: Mercy: Women’s Shifting Attitudes Towards Love and MarriageWhiskeyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/01854764809682029464noreply@blogger.comBlogger44125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3893665144141962944.post-82434663345505205002011-11-27T23:33:40.309-08:002011-11-27T23:33:40.309-08:00Well, I do not really imagine it is likely to have...Well, I do not really imagine it is likely to have effect.www.murcia-3d.comhttp://www.murcia-3d.comnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3893665144141962944.post-18160057017492991182011-09-14T01:15:31.657-07:002011-09-14T01:15:31.657-07:00Although women are shifting their attitude towards...Although women are shifting their attitude towards love and marriage, most of them still wanna get married, but how can you have some serious relationship with a woman whom you've scored on the first date?IT Services Londonhttp://reliablenetworks.co.uknoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3893665144141962944.post-84371197668754172442009-10-25T08:52:28.117-07:002009-10-25T08:52:28.117-07:00*snort*
BS.
1) both men and women write laws an...*snort* <br /><br />BS.<br /><br />1) both men and women write laws and definitions<br />2) there is no "the" sexual fantasy for women-- although patterns indicate a tendency towards preferring stronger/more powerful men<br />3) sure, men can be sexual gatekeepers-- generally, though, 'Self Esteem' by the Offspring is more accurate. There's nothing new about men wanting the milk without the cow, what's new is the mik-keepers having a way to offer it and being willing to do so on a wide scale.<br />4) In spite of pop culture, the sexes don't hate each other. Some very perverse sub-groups hate, but don't mistake the squeaky wheel for the whole cart.Foxfierhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10161683096247890834noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3893665144141962944.post-44632312848445043172009-10-25T08:42:56.458-07:002009-10-25T08:42:56.458-07:00Females are not the sexual gatekeepers. Who cares ...Females are not the sexual gatekeepers. Who cares what females think afterall? It is men who write our laws and define terms, not the irrelevant female. The female sexual fantasy is a lesbian sexual fantasy without marriage and children, because they hamper female promiscuity with other lesbos. Men are also sexual gatekeepers. Due to divorce many men are avoiding marriage and fatherhood altogether. It's the gaying of America. Females abused to laws to make men's behvior as well as their own queer. Now everybody's gay. The genders hate each other.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3893665144141962944.post-12051359625991769762009-08-19T10:18:56.242-07:002009-08-19T10:18:56.242-07:00I'd argue, conversely, that the mindset of the...I'd argue, conversely, that the mindset of the folks writing these shows are the kind of folks prone to focusing on the bad stuff that happens as being the only truth.<br /><br />IE, "I can't get a date with guys I'm interested in if I act like myself, and I think of myself as smart" becomes "men are scared of smart women" rather than trying to figure out if they're smart and obnoxious, if they're attracted to jerks, of they neglect their own appearance in favor of their intellect.... <br /><br /><br />Liberal tendencies seem to be only slightly related-- more on the "I know better than you, so I'm going to organize things to work MY way!" type thing, or mommy-state, vs "I know better than you, but any system I come up with will be able to be abused, so let's set some ground-rules that are least likely to be abused and most likely to be effective--then, if you fall down, you should get up, dust yourself off and get going again" philosophy of the right.<br /><br /><br />Oh, dear, why did you have to bring that up... now I'm wondering if the high number of childless liberal women that are active in political matters are misplacing their mothering instinct to the entire country.... (it's worth noting that folks tend to become more conservative as they get older, get married or have children)Foxfierhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10161683096247890834noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3893665144141962944.post-76612894587758685612009-08-19T10:09:57.840-07:002009-08-19T10:09:57.840-07:00The interesting question here is why women have th...<i> The interesting question here is why women have this bleak conception of men</i><br /><br />In my experience, women harbor such ideas to flaunt their own superiority and improve their own self esteem.<br /><br />It shouldn't be surprising, then, that women tend to vote liberal, since so much of liberalism is about conspicuous displays of virtue and assumed moral superiority.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3893665144141962944.post-69023103766956292832009-08-19T03:10:45.443-07:002009-08-19T03:10:45.443-07:00I agree that all the things you've pointed out...I agree that all the things you've pointed out are true but I think you're missing the overall picture.<br /><br />The presentation of the nurses as assertive(in fact down-right aggressive), cynical, reckless with other peoples feelings, this all reminds me of feminist carricatures of men.<br /><br />Whether intentional or not the heroine of the show is presented as living just as women tend to imagine a man living(careless by way of lacking emotions). It's a womans fantasy of what it might be like to be a man.. with a woman as the man.<br /><br />The interesting question here is why women have this bleak conception of men(in my opinion blatantly in conflict with traditional ideas of manhood as well as everyday ecperience) and why they want to embrace it as a model for emulation.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3893665144141962944.post-32969443472327233702009-06-22T17:38:45.026-07:002009-06-22T17:38:45.026-07:00Whiskey--
Sometimes I genuinely wonder where you ...Whiskey--<br /><br />Sometimes I genuinely wonder where you have done your dating. You are clearly in the mire of having some seriously bad luck with women. Not all women are bitches out to get you.<br /><br />"shopping, gossiping, obsessions with fashion, celebrities, shoes, and finding kittens, puppies, and babies "cute" to be annoying."<br /><br />I can honestly say I find everything mentioned there equally annoying (except for the fashion). <br /><br />You are right, though. Men and women need to stop trying to pretend to be "the same" and spend more time enjoying the differences and learning about them.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3893665144141962944.post-83944873729002347412009-06-20T10:52:18.290-07:002009-06-20T10:52:18.290-07:00Whiskey, I'd be interested to read a compariso...Whiskey, I'd be interested to read a comparison between Mercy/Nurse Jackie/Hawthorne/Grey's Anatomy and, say, Scrubs or ER. Scrubs and ER are definitely at opposite ends of the drama/comedy spectrum, but they both seem to be directed at a much more general audience than these new shows. They also seem to to be a lot less PC-oriented.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3893665144141962944.post-84358336968817311112009-06-10T06:23:03.794-07:002009-06-10T06:23:03.794-07:00Whiskey-
Dig your blog. Bumped into it.
I've ...Whiskey-<br />Dig your blog. Bumped into it.<br /><br />I've been posting pro-male comments on the NBC website, asking why there are no straight male nurses. You'd think run a men's support group or something but seriously, the stereotyping is insane.<br />I pray that one of the producers of the show is to be glued to those friggin comments-I hope to god they are furiously re-writing scripts, thanks to my lame comments and the fact that Nurse Jackie just scooped the shit out of them. She's got a gay male sidekick, too. <br />The ratio of straight male nurses to female nurses is pretty similar of African-Americans to caucasian's on the tube. <br />But I think a straight male nurse, especially a white one would be seen as a loser, not as a hero, for not being a doctor. <br />I never wanted to be a doctor. My wife loves what I do, and I love the fact that most doctors are too scared shitless to get their hands dirty, in every sense of the word. And I came up as an E.M.T. which in L.A. is...uhh,well frankly, well it's fuckin nuts. I had to get off the street to the safety of an E.R. But then I realized almost every ERin LA is a fucking trauma center. So you put all these stressed out, drug addled, bi-polar medical people in a box and you through oieces of human tragedy at them and you get me: President of my nursing class. LA, County! County!<br />In reality, there are more female residents in training than males, at least in L.A. and for the most part, they have a vigor and enthusiasm for the gig that the dudes don't. Maybe more to prove. <br />Whereas many of my female coworkers think professionalism and assertiveness is to be an absolute bitch (and they will proudly tell you that they are a bitch)to any living or nonlving creature. I find the female docs to aproach situations with logic, grace and a real assertiveness that pissess the "bitch" nurses off.<br />My point is that I fear these nurse shows have a decidely anti-feminist and somehow anti-male slant at the same time. And my weaker minded co-workers are gonna dig it. <br />"Life is full of little pricks" Nurse Jackie's billboard says. <br />According to Mercy and Jackie too, "Life is full of big ol' vaginas" as women in these series seem to deal with snooty white male doctors by fucking them. Next season they'll get married. And get pregnant but lose the baby by getting kicked in the gut from a crazy patient. Nurse Jackie's treatment of her new nurse, oh yeah, same as on Mercy is called "horizontal violence." i.e Nurses eat their young. It is the emotional and verbal abuse, the conditioning we receive that enables us to be the most abused workforce in America since the god damn labor movement. I suppose the thick skin also helps keep one from going to the darklands.<br />I like the percocet addiction though. Sporty.<br />If you only knew....LicensedToILLhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12074573944211265049noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3893665144141962944.post-12891851571612576322009-06-02T11:26:49.286-07:002009-06-02T11:26:49.286-07:00Whiskey,
Looks like Showtime is promoting a show ...Whiskey,<br /><br />Looks like Showtime is promoting a show called Nurse Jackie. It looks like an EXACT copy of Mercy. The lack of creativity in Hollywood is amazing. <br /><br />Anyway, I wrote about Nurse Jackie on my blog:<br /><br />http://ramzpaul.blogspot.com/RAMZPAULhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13100217780974916822noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3893665144141962944.post-12388309045147361492009-06-01T20:09:15.473-07:002009-06-01T20:09:15.473-07:00Very interesting post. These are all thoughts I ha...Very interesting post. These are all thoughts I have had lately. As a new Mother raising daughters and a wife of over a decade I have been having this crap shoved down my throat for years. I was mocked and pittied when I married right out of the first year of college....however, the majority of my friends are unmarried or married late and are already divorced.<br /><br />I am tired of being told that older women are "vital" and that younger men are dying to sleep with them. That waiting until you are nearly middle age is the best bet for an "equal Marriage" (ah no, all the best guys are gone...married early or to YOUNGER women..you can only marry way older then).<br /><br />Now all I see is a bunch of friends who bought the lie and are horribly angry and don't even want to be around me...because they realize their time may have passed.<br /><br />TV is a waste of time targeted for sad and bitter people who are clinging to a lie.<br /><br />Many Blessings :)<br />AceAcehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01115714120919795927noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3893665144141962944.post-60763422990176439262009-05-26T13:36:53.395-07:002009-05-26T13:36:53.395-07:00Jack--
I hope you're right. I just think there's...Jack--<br /><br />I hope you're right. I just think there's too much weight on the other side.sestamibinoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3893665144141962944.post-32243306379279274082009-05-21T16:08:47.705-07:002009-05-21T16:08:47.705-07:00Of course, much of the show seems aimed at women m...Of course, much of the show seems aimed at women mid forties or older with a protagonist in her early/mid thirties.<br /><br />Perhaps more evidence of the graying of America.<br /><br />CW's Teen Girl shows routinely draw only 2 million viewers or less. Some draw less than a million.<br /><br />Not enough young people. Or I should say, Young White people (Mexican youth and older do not watch much English language TV, unsurprisingly).Whiskeyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01854764809682029464noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3893665144141962944.post-91772357956815855742009-05-20T21:18:25.602-07:002009-05-20T21:18:25.602-07:00"However, it won't happen in any organized fashion..."However, it won't happen in any organized fashion because it would then be subject to ridicule from both "chivalrous" conservatives ("real men don't act like that") and from feminists ("what they need is a good lay"). "<br /><br />Of course it will be subject to ridicule. Goddamn it, blacks were subject to police beatings and dog attacks. We can't withstand a little ridicule? With enough numbers, hopefully the attitude will be "fuck ridicule". If we get ridiculed, it should firm our resolve. Let's say you're an angry white guy who never gets laid. What does he have to lose?Jacknoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3893665144141962944.post-7347158902932115622009-05-20T05:54:01.376-07:002009-05-20T05:54:01.376-07:00Whiskey,
David Friedman asks if free love has a d...Whiskey,<br /><br />David Friedman asks if free love has a down side in his most recent post:<br /><br />http://daviddfriedman.blogspot.com/2009/05/does-free-love-promote-or-impede.htmlAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3893665144141962944.post-90271407000968694842009-05-19T17:55:51.892-07:002009-05-19T17:55:51.892-07:00anonymous said The (female) nurses are portrayed a...anonymous said<I> The (female) nurses are portrayed as smarter and more assertive than the (male) doctors</I> <br />if the male doctors are new interns,then the female nurses are smarter or at least have more clinical skills.matt williamshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14336864718324358033noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3893665144141962944.post-63780200346633288372009-05-19T12:59:00.000-07:002009-05-19T12:59:00.000-07:00The US media is no better than the Soviet media, i...The US media is no better than the Soviet media, it exists to promote the planned utopia and to lie about current events in order to promote the current state of affairs. Having some competition in the media at least makes them work harder and at least try and be believable when selling their crap disguised as entertainment.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3893665144141962944.post-75498041521263379192009-05-19T12:17:00.000-07:002009-05-19T12:17:00.000-07:00Jack, I agree that what you say will happen if bet...Jack, I agree that what you say will happen if betas get pushed too far. However, it won't happen in any organized fashion because it would then be subject to ridicule from both "chivalrous" conservatives ("real men don't act like that") and from feminists ("what they need is a good lay"). <br /><br />But it is coming. Darren Mack was just on the vanguard.sestamibinoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3893665144141962944.post-88524947507177231942009-05-19T12:03:00.000-07:002009-05-19T12:03:00.000-07:00So much PC nuttery in this promo.
Not including t...So much PC nuttery in this promo.<br /><br />Not including the "old flame" doctor, about whose medical skills nothing is mentioned, there are two white doctors and one black doctor depicted. The two white doctors are shown to be bumbling incompetents, which of course she jokes about with the wise black doctor. The (female) nurses are portrayed as smarter and more assertive than the (male) doctors. The only male patient shown is already dead.<br /><br />I know this probably isn't completely representative of the show - it can't be like that all the time without devolving into absurdity (though Grey's has already pretty much done that). You can tell a lot about a show (and why the network put it on the air) by how it's marketed, though.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3893665144141962944.post-51177015188546691582009-05-18T20:49:00.000-07:002009-05-18T20:49:00.000-07:00You people talking about sex robots and artificial...You people talking about sex robots and artificial wombs need to get a grip. If those things do happen, it will be many decades for them to be common.<br /><br />Whiskey, of course, has a keen eye, somewhat exaggerated, for the current societal social problems. But guys have to be realistic and think in terms of the same thing every other group does - increasing political power. I've brought up the issue before, that sometimes you have to stop complaining and start confronting to get what you want. Affirmative action didn't begin because a bunch of old white guys sat around and said "let's do something nice for blacks." It happened because white people were scared, as they saw city after city burning up and saw that blacks were willing to FUCK SHIT UP.<br /><br />Think about that. A group of what, 10% of the population caused that kind of change. The fact is, feminists fought for the wholesale societal changes of the last 50 years because they HATE the traditional family. Everything from abortion to women's "equal" (really superior) pay to no-fault divorce. Feminists wanted women liberated - from their families and children. Somehow, the men in charge allowed these things to happen, to a point now where a judge rules that the morning-after pill can be given to 17-year olds over the counter. Yes, that is America I am talking about. An America where the men who study hard and do the right things are NOT being rewarded.<br /><br />So what about the majority of white men, those of not great looks or high status? Well, if it really is so bad, we need to organize. Organize into lobbying groups to change the fucked-up laws which have hurt us. Meanwhile, just like in the civil rights movement, have a confrontational element. Make the feminists and their sympathizers think twice. How, you ask? Well maybe women who divorce their husbands need to start getting their car windows smashed. Or their workplaces harassed. Or maybe worse. You get the point. In numbers, "beta" men can at least get a MESSAGE out, if we organize. As opposed to now when we have no movement or power. Just like blacks in the 60's, beta guys need to show they are willing to FUCK SHIT UP. It's the only way.<br /><br />And one more thing, men need to be very, very careful about they end up committing to. Whatever we do is for naught if aging Sex and the City-type sluts are able to find men and happiness. The message has to get out that if you slut around too much, you'll end up a catlady. For that message to stick, men need to steer clear of women who were alpha-fuckers throughout their 20's. And it shouldn't be that hard for a man with any self-respect.Jacknoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3893665144141962944.post-27601526025142457312009-05-18T17:06:00.000-07:002009-05-18T17:06:00.000-07:00Great to see you blogging again.
Not entirely on-...Great to see you blogging again.<br /><br />Not entirely on-topic, but I figured this site would be right up your alley, Whiskey. Perhaps you've already been there & bought their reading material, but anyway:<br /><br />http://www.nomarriage.com/Nine-of-Diamondsnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3893665144141962944.post-58858311927152980082009-05-18T14:51:00.000-07:002009-05-18T14:51:00.000-07:00Alec Baldwin for artificial wombs?
http://www.br...Alec Baldwin for artificial wombs?<br /><br /><br />http://www.breitbart.com/article.php?id=D988KQ001&show_article=1<br /><br /><br />He "would love" to have more children at 51, and joked about "getting a phillipino mail order bride" or "russian one".<br /><br />Oh, the market is there, trust me. Why would Alec risk 10 million bucks on a some woman who said, "trust me Alec, I love you even though you are old enough to be my dad", when all he really wants is another kid or two (one that actually, you know, doesn't hate him because her mom has brainwashed her to do so for the last several years). <br /><br />Ive been right about much over the years, and I think I'll be right about this in a couple of decades also. Women will be able to not get fat, have morning sickness, get cellulite and stretch marks, but to just go "pick up" the kids they had with their husbands and not even miss any work. I think it will be extremely poplular once safe. Single men and women who dont want to marry will have kids this way. In fact, we will probably have to limit them to one kid apiece becuase of its popularity. I think time will prove me right on this one.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3893665144141962944.post-50585180419368879822009-05-18T13:41:00.000-07:002009-05-18T13:41:00.000-07:00Only if:
1) you're not in jail
2) they can prove i...Only if:<br />1) you're not in jail<br />2) they can prove it's you.<br /><br />For #2, you just don't stick around long enough for pregnancy to show up.Foxfierhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10161683096247890834noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3893665144141962944.post-61431181892254931062009-05-18T13:40:00.000-07:002009-05-18T13:40:00.000-07:00Whiskey,
"Spread your seed all around" Equals pa...Whiskey,<br /><br /> "Spread your seed all around" Equals paying child support to two or three women. <br /><br />What guy in his right mind would be for that?<br /><br /><br /><br />Artificial wombs would allow the successful professional man to have two kids OF HIS OWN, that nobody could take away (and make him pay child support for), while he feasts on a buffet of different women (a la Roissy) every month. His parents and sisters could watch the kids for 4 years while he is at work until they are ready for school. It will be something for men who can afford it (men that make at least roughly 75K a year). I can assure you, tons of professional males............or just guys who hit the big "4-oh" childless who would rather do that than take a huge financial chance by marrying a party-girl they met at the bars. <br /><br />Whiskey, professional women get IVF right now when they dont meet "Mr Right", and they have to go through a pregnancy and give birth. A guy can cum in a cup, and come back in 9 months and pick up twins and make his own parents grandparents----without risking a dime, child support, alimony, half his IRA, or the drama of a marriage. While he chases all the pussy on the buffet out there? Are you kidding me? <br /><br />I think you'd be astounded how popular it would get to be amongst men who could afford it. Men love kids too Whiskey, but marrying a party girl---no matter how good the poon tang, makes him beholden to much shit these days. Why bother? He can milk-the-cow-through-the-fence-and have kids anyway..........it will come. The Japanese will do it first.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.com